Step Into Their Shoes

A quick perspective shift that makes your message land the right way.

Before you hit send… step into their shoes.

One of the fastest ways to improve your communication and decisions is to pause and ask yourself:
 "If I were them, how would I view this request, update, or decision?"

It’s not about second-guessing yourself or overthinking your wording.
It’s about communicating with intention.

That quick perspective shift can:
  - Catch unclear language before it confuses someone.
  - Prevent a well-intentioned suggestion from sounding like a demand.
  - Help you anticipate objections before they surface.
  - Prevent a small misunderstanding from becoming a big problem.

I’ve avoided more than a few misunderstandings simply by re-reading something through the other person’s lens!

It takes 30 seconds (unless you’re writing very detailed, technical emails… those might take 2 minutes!). And it can save hours of back-and-forth and protect the trust you’ve built.